A word I'm trying to find

I'm trying hard to find the word that describes how I see people who behave in a certain way: i met one the other day, she embodied what i'm trying to describe:
She acts with entitlement, you can see it in her body language, her voice, she takes a lot of space. She seems hungry for attention. She accuses the others of all her issues. She is a bully yet she claims to be the biggest victim, and declares it, she would push and bully you because you must believe it. You must agree with her. You have to feed the comical picture of her perfection. She manipulates and power trips. She claims to be the advocate of justice, she patronizes and attacks and insults then cries claiming she is the one that got attacked. Wtf.
She is constantly - non stop- displaying her goodness, she seems driven to establish that she is the most virtuous.
She is the most everything good. She is the most sensitive, the most loving most right most fair most victim most suffering most good most not bad most anything that will attract positive attention. She is vicious in protecting this comical pictures of herself.

Self centered with a huge cloud of ignorance & arrogance - is there a word to describe that?
Conceited? Delusional? Illusional?